I wrote a
while ago about knowing when it is time to have a “Plan B” in your career. The gist of it was that, at some point after
many years in the business, one must evaluate continuing in your chosen field
or accepting the possibility that it is time to develop a second career. Most of the people I wrote about in that post
had been in the business for twenty or thirty years and it was time to move on.
But there
are other people, I meet them all the time, who just can’t gain any traction in
their current careers. There are people who are perpetually out of work. Some of them are actually
pretty good (rarely great) at what they do, but their careers have never gained
momentum or traction. I know and meet many people in their early to mid-thirties who
have rarely stayed at a job for more than two or three years. Some have had the misfortune of simply
choosing the wrong company or have joined companies which cannot afford to keep
them. Some are really nice, but not
quite good enough, so after a few years, with reluctance, they are
down-sized. There are some people who
actually stay at a company for many years but do not get promoted. I know one person who was an account
supervisor for nearly twelve years. And there are other people get blindsided
by money and move on from their jobs prematurely in order to make bigger bucks.
(I’ve written about jobs
that overpay and people who leave only because of money.)
I can think of one person who, with no
particular training, has had a small agency for twenty years. It never went anywhere and provides him with
a very modest living. He contacts me
regularly, perhaps twice a year, to get him a permanent gig at a big
agency. It isn’t going to happen (for
the reasons stated in my “Plan
B” article).
All these
people need to evaluate where they are and what they are doing. Some of these people stay in their current
careers because they have to prove themselves right, which is a fool’s
errand. We all know what the definition
of insanity is. Truth is, no one
cares except themselves. Everyone has the right to be
successful and happy, which are not mutually exclusive attributes. Every person
should constantly review his or her career and reevaluate career goals.
Success
is not about money. Happiness is also not about money. Being fulfilled is
wonderful. And to get there may require
some painful introspection.
Being
introspective can be very cathartic.
Personally,
I loved advertising, but there was something missing for me, even though I came
from an advertising family and had built and run a successful agency. It took me a long time to decide to recruit
for advertising, which gave me a chance to have the best of both worlds. That was over thirty years ago and I haven’t
regretted the decision for a minute.
Knowing
when to move on is essential for everyone.
I was
recently privileged to meet a woman who owns a very successful gourmet food
store in Beach Haven, New Jersey. Both
she and her husband were fed up with the big city rat race and moved there to
open this store. Their business is
fabulous and fulfilling and they are really having fun.
I wish
that kind of success and happiness for everyone.
