I am constantly being asked
for favors. All executive recruiters
receive these request. So I thought I would write a post about the
questions/requests you can’t ask a recruiter.
I don’t mean to sound curmudgeonly,
it is just that, like most recruiters, I am always busy. And mostly the favors are such that I cannot accommodate them.
1. Asking a recruiter to network them
The problem with all recruiters is that we meet too many people. I see on average of three or four people a day. Many of them are wonderful and I would love to be able to help, but I just can't. I always think it would be an abuse of my position to introduce them to people I know. I see dozens of new people a month. And, after all, how many times can I call my friends and contacts when I don’t have a specific assignment?
The problem with all recruiters is that we meet too many people. I see on average of three or four people a day. Many of them are wonderful and I would love to be able to help, but I just can't. I always think it would be an abuse of my position to introduce them to people I know. I see dozens of new people a month. And, after all, how many times can I call my friends and contacts when I don’t have a specific assignment?
There
is an exception. Because I am in
advertising and marketing, if someone comes to see me with specific experience
which may be relevant to an ad agency which is pitching an account or where I know they are needed, I will call to make the introduction. But that
is rare.
2. LinkedIn Introductions
2. LinkedIn Introductions
With some
frequency, people I know (and people I don’t know) ask me to connect them to
people who are my LinkedIn connections.
I don’t do that. I get paid to make introductions and when I make them, I only connect
on LinkedIn with people I actually know or have had contact with. It is surprising to me how many people, both
working and not, ask me to introduce them to some senior executive for the
purpose of networking or interviewing.
3.
Freebies
Just
recently, a friend sent me job specs and asked if I know anyone who fit those
specs. I asked if I could get paid. He told me he was doing a favor for a friend.
Recruiters get paid for making introductions.
So, I declined.
4. Being A Reference
4. Being A Reference
Occasionally,
candidates I have known for many years ask me to be a reference. I always
decline because they have not actually worked with me or for me and anything I
may know about them is hearsay.
Sometimes those requests are also a conflict of interest because I am actually working to fill the same job with candidates of my own.
5. Putting In A Good Word
5. Putting In A Good Word
Sometimes,
candidates call and ask me about a company they are interviewing with; often,
they have networked themselves into the company for an actual job. They then ask
me to call the people they have interviewed with to put in a good word. First of all, it is none of my business. Second, the people I may have
been asked to call may be good , but it is a form of pressure which no one likes; forcing
references on people may actually be counter-productive. (In the post I just linked to I told the story of a candidate who was rejected because of the pressure.)
Paul, I recently asked a favor of you, and thank goodness it didn't fall into one of the categories above. You were so kind, so thoughtful, so helpful. Let no one call you a curmudgeon in my presence!
ReplyDeleteThat is really nice, Rachel. Your favor was something I would gladly do for you and did not try to take advantage of me.
Deletesir i was terrified when i read the headline fearing i'd see in the article an unflattering portrait of myself! thankfully considering how many times as i've reached out to you for advice, i do believe i've so far managed to skirt around at least these major areas of sin. best, pk.
ReplyDeleteI do, however, reserve the right to still ask you favors in relation to your culinary expertise.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely, Henry. For my readers who don't know what Henry is referring to, please see my Facebook posts or follow me on Facebook.
DeleteLike commentator Henry Johnston, I also reserve the right to ask for your expert advice on glass collectibles.
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